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This is Table of Contents and First Chapter of “Psychic Mediumship: Yes You Can!” E-book
Table of Contents
Before Continuing. 5
Chapter One – Opening Naturally to Psychic Mediumship. 6
Making First Contact. 8
Is Everyone A Psychic Medium?. 8
Psychic Senses or Clair Senses. 9
Mental Mediumship Versus Physical Mediumship. 10
Viewing A Spirit Body. 10
Meditation. 11
The L-O-V-E Formula. 12
Exercises. 14
Chapter Two: Family Relationship Chart. 16
Family Relationship Chart. 17
How To Use The Family Relationship Map. 18
Once Contact is Made. 18
Some Souls Easier to Bring In Than Others. 20
Story About Discernment. 20
Other Information Provided By This Discernment. 22
Grief is Not Constructive. 22
Pre-Life Planning. 22
Other Mediumship Techniques. 22
Another Discovery. 23
Dreams. 23
Healing Through Discernment. 23
Chapter Two Exercise. 24
Chapter Three – Psychic Detective. 25
Psychic Detective Insights (True Story). 25
Another Psychic Detective Example Using Mediumship. 28
Study Famous Psychics. 29
Psychic Detective Noreen Renier. 29
Psychic Detective Annette Martin. 31
Exercise For Psychic Detective. 32
Chapter Four – Pure Mediumship. 33
Sending a Soul Into The Light. 33
Technique to Send Souls Into the Light. 33
Moving Away From Tools. 34
Platform Reading. 34
How to Get Names From Spirit – Entirely Receiving. 35
Entirely Delivering Your Messages. 37
One on One Mediumship. 39
Steps to work one on one. 39
Seances – How To Do. 41
Trance State. 42
Exercises. 43
Conclusion. 44
Contact. 44
Reference Section. 45
Mediumship Facts. 45
Additional Resources. 47
Training. 47
Books. 47
Multi-Media (DVDs and CDs). 47
Before Continuing
If you are new to psychic work, it is advisable to do some sort of psychic development before attempting to do psychic mediumship. You may want to complete the E-books, “Psychic Creativity,” and “Channeling GodSpeak,” part of the Intuitive Miracle book series I have authored. More information about these E-books is at this link.
As well, if you are new to mediumship it is advisable to read through the “Reference, Mediumship Facts” section at end of this book for important basic facts about mediumship.
This book will not go into the basic facts since this information is ubiquitous today. Rather this book is designed to offer you unique information about developing your psychic mediumship talents.
Chapter One – Opening Naturally to Psychic Mediumship
If you have taken any psychic mediumship class you might have felt awkward, like perhaps doing this work is going to be extremely difficult. I did.
Ironically, prior to any classes, my first attempts to do mediumship seemed to be quite easy. I had channeled in messages from the other side which were confirmed by the recipients. Channeling was my first psychic skill, so it was extremely natural to approach mediumship this way for me.
The first message from the Other Side was very detailed, as I recounted a murder in South America. Relatives in New York wanted to know what happened to their father the night he was murdered. I simply asked their father from spirit to speak to me.
He did, describing exactly what happened. When I presented the material to his daughters in New York, they said this collaborated with what the police had said. They were able to gain closure.
Even though I had had this type of success with mediumship, when I went to a formal class I was a miserable failure.
In one of the first mediumshp classes I took, patterned after a well known and respected intuitive practitioner, everyone in the class seemed to be in awe of the entire process.
Our first exercise was to receive for names. Ironically enough, receiving names is considered to be one of the most advanced skills of a psychic medium, yet this was our first exercise. Needless to say, no correct names were received for that exercise. We were all convinced mediumship was going to be a difficult skill to develop.
Let us fast forward to an exercise near the end of the class. I was assigned to work with this pleasant man, who I secretly thought was intuitively challenged. I say this because he seemed to rarely be correct during the other exercises in the class.
However, when we got to an exercise where he was reading my aura, he arrived at the place where my father’s energy should reside. When his hand went into that area, I flinched.
It was funny. He felt nothing, yet I got a jolt of energy. I guess I was more sensitive to that sort of energy than he was.
Anyway, I asked him to go back into that area on my aura. He did. I asked if he saw or felt anything else he could report.
He reported seeing in his mind’s eye the image of an elderly, slender man about 5’ 8” tall. This man had white hair that was thinning and messed up. He was wearing an overly large pair of heavily rimmed, smudged eyeglasses and was sporting a very wide, wry smile.
I was amazed. This man perfectly described my father!
What is the theme of this story? I think we are all capable of having communication with the spirit world. If you give yourself the chance to use your best faculty for perception you will naturally communicate with the other side.
Each person is different. Some will feel energy easier. Some will see easier. Some will hear easier. The challenge in learning is to discover what your best faculty of perception is and develop from there.
If you are used to channeling, as I was, then you should try to reach the other side by channeling. If you are used to reading Tarot cards, then take up your cards and attempt to reach the other side in a card reading.
If you are an energy healer, try communicating with a loved one in spirit during a healing session.
Most schools of mediumship seem to be highly preoccupied with making the medium conform to the way the mediumship is done. I have studied with individuals trained at the Arthur Findlay School of mediumship in England, The Delphi Institute, Doreen Virtue, Ph.D. and others.
Each of these experiences were not as productive as using my natural way of working. Since then I have found my best mediumship now comes by throwing out what I was taught.
I simply let the person in spirit talk to me. This makes the best and most exciting discernments!
When I first started doing mediumship I was always trying to “get” evidence. This is what most mediumship schools teach. In order to be a medium you have to get accurate facts and figures from the deceased loved ones in spirit.
While it is obviously important to get evidence to prove you are really speaking to a loved one, the kind of evidence can and must be a lot broader than I was taught.
For example, when I started doing mediumship I was taught to get three very specific pieces of information. I would try to get the “cause of death,” relationship to the loved in spirit, and finally a shared memory or physical description. I would fuss and force this, usually with little results.
The best evidence you will ever get will come from the conversation you have with the loved one to the sitter (person on earth wanting to speak to the other side). This conversation will be heard, seen or felt or a combination of all of the above.
Think of mediumship like a conversation with a real, living person who is a stranger to you, yet an intimate confidant to the sitter.
If you start your mediumship this way, YOU WILL BE LIGHT YEARS AHEAD of other mediums who try to force facts from their spirit connections. Just let the information flow.
The other night I was listening to a radio show which recounted a medium attempting to do “cold” mediumship to callers into the show. She fussed around spewing forth one letter after another, describing one person in spirit after another. The sitters were largely confused and she seemed to be wrong mostly. The sessions were a disaster.
Finally the other medium hosting the show offered the last caller some validation. The material flowed easily and naturally. This medium was NOT fishing for evidence. Instead she was allowing the loved one in spirit to communicate through her.
This approach to mediumship is covered in this book.
Here is a little story about making first contact.
Making First Contact
It was fall in Florida. The room was filled with some very bright and expert psychics wanting to learn how to connect with the other side.
As my co-teacher and I proceeded into the first lesson, we stumbled into a conundrum. This had happened in other classes I had taught, but this time it was worse. Our students were unable to get anything from the other side, try as they might.
I went around the room in a curious analysis. What could I suggest? Suddenly I had an idea! Have them do what they normally do when conducting a reading!
One of the students was an expert Tarot card reader. He was at the level where he no longer read the cards, but allowed the cards to be triggers for his innate psychic ability.
As soon as he brought out a Tarot deck, it was like a miracle. He began pulling in messages from the other side like he had been doing this his entire life!
The same thing happened with an energy healer in the room. I instructed her to relax into the way she receives messages when doing healing. As soon as she did, the messages started flowing to her.
Mediumship is a lot easier and much more available than you think, especially if you allow it to happen with your natural abilities and tools.
Is Everyone A Psychic Medium?
I believe so, but not everyone is gifted as a medium. Just like everyone can play basketball not everyone is born over 7 feet tall with the coordination and other gifts to play as a professional.
Psychic Senses or Clair Senses
Here is a brief description of the senses we use in mediumship. If it is review for you just skip to the next section.
Clearly see (clairvoyance). You might see pictures, colors and images.
- Clearly hear (clairaudience). You might hear information like words being spoken to you into your head.
- Clearly feel (clairsentience or empathic). You might feel things such as fear, choking, tiredness, sadness and loss. I sometimes get feelings which have to wash through my body before I can continue. Remember these are not your feelings. Remain objective and in control.
- Clearly know (claircognizance). Information just pops into your head. You just know it.
- Clearly taste (clairgustance) or smell (clairalliance). Less common but some psychics do have these abilities available.
A psychic reading can be done with any or all of these senses. No one is better than the other. It just depends on what you have available to you.
Mental Mediumship Versus Physical Mediumship
When mediumship first was discovered in western society by the Fox sisters in New York, the mediums of that time were very fond of physical demonstration from the other side.
This meant levitation, table tapping, apports (physical objects channeled from spirit) were all the rage. Unfortunately this led to a lot of charlatans attempting to demonstrate, thus creating a bad name for all spirit communications.
Fortunately mediumship continued to be done. Today most spirit communication is what is called mental mediumship. This means that evidence is in the form of information from spirit, not physical demonstration.
As well, this means that you as a medium will perceive information from the Other Side through your mental faculties. For example, if you hear something it will sound like a voice is whispering in your head.
You will not hear the voice in the room external to yourself.
Now this is not to say that some mediums do not see or hear spirit people as real as you or I. However, this is less common than seeing a spirit in your mind’s eye.
If you want to read more background about mediumship go here.
Viewing A Spirit Body
After my mother died I moved into the house she lived in before her death. One bright Sunday morning, I awoke, but lingered in bed in a luxurious “semi” sleep. As I lay there I had the oddest sensation.
My consciousness floated up out of my body into the hallway outside my bedroom. I was not scared. I simply observed what was happening.
In the hallway a figure approached my floating mind from down the hall. As it came closer I realized it was my mother, looking perfectly healthy, wearing her favorite maroon knitted vest with matching slacks.
She did not notice me at all but happily walked past me into my bedroom.
As soon as I realized this was my mother I jolted back into my body. After this experience I wondered what it was all about. Was that my mother’s ghost or was it an energy of her past life left in the house after her passing? Objects including houses can hold energy.
Perhaps someday I will get the answer to this question, however, for now I remain in fascination.
What is learned from this story?
Well, the first thing is that when you are in a sleepy daydream state you can have paranormal experiences. Many “out of body” experiences come by deliberately developing ability to go into “deep alpha to theta” brain wave states.
Here is a website which sells different frequency audios to reach specific paranormal experience. It is located here. Check out their videos about frequencies.
Personally I do not use any of that. I simply do a theta meditation and I am off and running. Here is a web page from my site which goes into different meditations you can do, many of which are from YouTube.com which are free, fast, fun and effective. Go here to see these videos.
Being able to move into an altered state of consciousness at will is imperative to do psychic work. The next section offers the “LOVE formula” for the overall technique to follow for all psychic work including mediumship.
Meditation
If you are going to do mediumship or psychic work it is mandatory to meditate every day. This will give you the ability to enter a trance state easier.
If you are not meditating every day you might want to look up on http://www.youtube.com various meditations. It will make meditating that much easier for you.
The L-O-V-E Formula
The LOVE formula was created by me as a way for you to have an exact formula to access The Other Side and psychic states of consciousness. Without a consistent technique your results will be unpredictable and unreliable.
It includes a section on how to get to the slower brain wave state of theta which really is the key to all of this.
Each time you do mediumship or any type of psychic work it is imperative to use this procedure. It is especially important to remember to ask to work in a protected space when doing mediumship as you are opening up a portal to other dimensions. Ask for protection three times when doing a public message service.
Here it is.
Let go in meditation.
- Theta Brain Wave Meditation. The most important secret to opening your miracle mind is through deliberate access to deep Alpha to Theta brain wave states. It is this brain wave state which is responsible for access to the miracle mind, collective unconscious or what physicists call “zero point” or the fundamental energy of the universe.
- The easiest way I have found to gain access to this brain wave state is to use a “Deep Theta Meditation” found for free on youtube.com. If you do this daily or before working psychically, you will have a significant advantage.
- You will need at least eight minutes of viewing.
- Watch a professional brain wave entrainment audio. This link has many. I personally use the psychic one and have had smashing results with it. The Unexplainable Store, especkially the 20 minute theta meditation recording is located here.
- We enter Theta every day doing ordinary activities such as day dreaming, watching a boring TV show, listening to a dull lecture, in the shower, walking, driving long distance on a straight, desolate highway, staring at a hypnotic spiral wheel, reading an absorbing book, deep in meditation and during sleep. Go to this link for more complete information on how to go to theta trance: http://abundancepsychic.com/theta-trance
- Open in prayer. “Father, mother, god, all beings of the highest light and love, please come to me now in the mediumship for ‘name.’ Please allow all messages to be received clearly, accurately as intended for the highest good and benefit of ‘name’ and all those with whom she comes in contact. Please allow us to only work in the highest love, light and protected space possible (say this three times if you are doing a public message service). Please bring in the loved ones in spirit for ‘sitter name’ at this time. And so it is. “
- Alignment with the vibration of your subject by visualizing energy fields combining.
- Visualize yourself sitting opposite your subject (person for which you are doing psychic mediumship). If that subject is already in front of you then simply see them in your mind’s eye.
- Visualize the loved ones in spirit surrounding your sitter.
- Imagine they have an energy field coming out of all of them.
- Imagine you have an energy field coming out of yourself.
- Imagine both energy fields blending.
- You should feel a click as you connect.
- Entirely receive.
- Entirely receiving is one of the most difficult of this process for many people, but is critical to be able to do in order to access your psychic mind. You must be willing to allow yourself to report or accept anything that comes in as part of your psychic experience, even if it seems silly.
i. Example. I was doing mediumship for a client. I had tried to bring in her mother at our first session. Instead someone by the name of Christine came in who had died about six months prior of uterine cancer.
She appeared with short brown hair, a fair complexion and spoke about her two grandchildren. This was my client’s aunt. Everything that came in was exactly correct.
When I tried to bring in the mother of my client right after this, the material was foggy, unclear and imprecise.
We tried on another occasion to bring in her mother. However, this time something new happened.
As her mother tried to talk to us, a tall man interrupted the communication. He was wearing a western style shirt and hat. He was light in coloring with blond hair. He said to me, “We are from the west. We are from the west.”
At first I felt strange to deliver this seemingly meaningless message to my client, but did nevertheless.
My client laughed. Her mother’s maiden name was West. The man that appeared was her maternal grandfather, offering validating information so my client would know we were indeed in contact with her mother.
So you see if you do not allow spirit to speak to you completely, you will fail. As a matter of fact, if you do not report all the information you get from a psychic session completely your flow will be blocked.
So go ahead and report what you get fearlessly. You will be rewarded!
Exercises
It is important to note before going forward that psychic mediumship is mostly doing the work. It is 99% practice and 1% theory. So keep working with as many friends and acquaintances as you can until this become easier for you.
Using your usual method of psychic divination for mediumship.
- Find a friend or acquaintance to work with.
- Do the LOVE formula.
i. Let go in meditation,
ii. Open in prayer (remember to ask for protection). Using this prayer, ask your friend (sitter) to request their loved ones from spirit join you,
iii. Vibrationally align with your subject and
iv. Entirely receive.
- Decide on the method of divination you will use. Pick one that you currently use, is easy for you and automatic. Here are some possible tools you might use.
i. Tarot, playing or Angel Cards
ii. Psychometry using object from deceased loved one.
iii. Channeling or automatic writing.
iv. Pendulum.
v. Tea leaf or coffee grind reading.
vi. Aeromancy.
vii. I-Ching
viii. Ruin Stones
ix. Chinese Sticks
- Get answers to these questions.
i. Are you male or female?
ii. Were you young or old when you passed?
iii. Are you tall or short, portly or slender, etc..
iv. Are you a mother or father, grandmother or grandfather, aunt, uncle, child, friend, spouse, etc.
- Making Psychic Contact without tools.
- Find a friend or acquaintance.
- Do the LOVE formula.
i. Let go in meditation,
ii. Open in prayer (remember to ask for protection). Using this prayer, ask your friend (sitter) to request their loved ones from spirit join you,
iii. Vibrationally align with your subject and
iv. Entirely receive.
- Ask silently in your head or out loud who is visiting from the other side for the person sitting with you.
- Do you hear a voice in your head saying “hello” or greeting you in some way. I usually hear a voice from the other side distinctly speaking to me at the top right of the crown of my head. Check in this area and see what you get. You hear a voice talk to it.
- Ask these questions. Make a note as to how you receive answers. You might see, hear or feel the answers. This will be your primary psychic sense.
i. Age – young or old when they passed.
ii. Gender – male or female.
iii. Height – tall or short.
iv. Weight – heavy or thin.
v. Hair color, skin color.
vi. Health problems.
- Making conversational mediumship contact using a picture of loved one in spirit.
- Find a friend or acquaintance to work with.
- Secure a picture of the loved one.
- Prepare with the LOVE formula. Remember to ask for loved ones from spirit to come and visit with you.
- Look at the picture. Now ask the loved one in spirit to provide answers to these questions. You may hear, see or feel the answers. If you get answers see if you can go deeper. Try to make a conversation out of it.
i. What is your relationship to the sitter?
ii. Did you have any children when you were on earth?
iii. Did you die of illness or was it an accident?
iv. Did you live in the United States? Did you live in the north east, the mid west or the south west? You can continue with geographic questions until you find the city they lived in. .
v. What hobbies or activities did you do when you were on earth?
- Now it is time to get more conversational. Ask your sitter if they have any questions for the loved one in spirit. As you get answers deliver them to your sitter. Become the intermediary of their conversation.
i. Allow the loved one in spirit to begin leading the conversation forward. The more you do this, the better your mediumship will flow, until it becomes almost effortless.
ii. This conversational flow should be the objective for all of your mediumship.
- Stay on chapter one doing exercises 1-3 with different individuals until you finally arrive at a conversational flow with the other side. You do not have to be perfect, but you should at least start to experience more fluid communications before moving onto the next chapter.
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