Many individuals are under the impression that they have no effect whatsoever on what the psychic presents.  The psychic is either good or bad.  The client has nothing to do with that.

Yet if you showed up for your appointment late, confused or nervous you would affect the quality of your reading.  Since you are paying for this time, it is best to understand how to get the most from the experience.

You are like the psychic’s antennae to that divine place from which all information resides.  I know this might sound a bit confounding, but yes, the psychic accesses spirit, in part, with your assistance.

How can you prepare then to get the best reading possible?  Here are a few tips.

1.  Arrive a few minutes early.  Allow extra time to find the reading location if you have never been there before.

2.  Meditate beforehand briefly.  There are many ways to meditate that do not take a lot of time and can place you in the open state which will aid you in getting the best reading possible.

Here are three simple and fast ways to connect.  Choose the most enjoyable method for yourself considering whether you are more visceral, vibrational or visual.

a)      Breathing.  Just take a seat, uncross your arms and legs and begin to focus on your breathe using your belly button as the focal point.

b)      Sound.  Close your eyes and begin to focus on all the sounds in your environment.  As you do so just take in all the noise until, finally it begins to turn to chatter and then to a hum like the sound of the ocean.  That quiet hum means you have reached the optimal mind state for a good reading.

c)       Visual.  Another method I like very much is to close my eyes and focus on the vision field behind my eye lids.  Watch all the floaters and keep focusing.  Soon you will see a white light.  That means again you have reached the miracle mind state for a good reading.

3.  Feel comfortable.  Dress comfortably and appropriately for the weather.  Eat lightly before having your reading so you are not too hungry or too full. A heavy meal of red meat would probably bring down your vibration and make you less transparent to spirit.  If you are too hungry you might be jumpy, agitated and mentally foggy.

4.  Be clear.  One “syndrome” I have found in some clients which affects the reading, is their mental or emotional state.  I just recently did mediumship for a client that seemed to be high.

She got so lost on her way to the reading location I had to get in my car, drive to find her and have her follow me!  I have never had to do that with anyone else.  When she got into my office she wandered into the middle of the space and asked where she could wash her hands.  The fact that she’d just visited the rest room where a sink and soap were readily available had evaded her.

What does this have to do with your reading?  Well, consider this.  If the psychic says something and the “sitter”  does not understand the message or recognize its accuracy, the energy of the connection (belief) drops.  Each time the energy drops  the psychic has to work very hard to get access to accurate information.

I kept wondering, if she could not “get” the directions to the reading location, how would she be able to “get” the information from spirit.  To compensate I worked exquisitely hard to be understood by her.

Thank goodness there was some solid evidence she did recognize early into the session so the reading turned out quite good.  However, this experience reminded me, how much the client affects the reading too!

To get the best out of your reading be relaxed, clear headed and comfortable.  If you do this, you just might find your reading to be quite sensational.