PSYCHOPATH FREE:  Heal From Psychopathic Narcissistic Misogynist Abuse.   I share this information in case you know someone that can benefit from it.  This is not meant to diagnose or treat any illness.

The material in this article is based on the book, “Psychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People,” by Jackson Mackenzie and other supportive reviews, articles and materials on this subject.  Some of these resources are referenced below.

We all crave to be loved.  So when a toxic person, perhaps a Psychopathic Narcissistic Misogynist, comes our way we might remain under their control far longer than we should.  We can be especially vulnerable to this type of situation if we are a person of high empathy and sensitivity.

Since discovering this syndrome, I have come to realize how insidious it can be.  As well, I have become aware how pervasive this type of abuse is.

It is an epidemic.   I can easily say this after the amount of material I found on this subject when doing research on it.

Yes, this toxic person could be a soul mate of yours.  A person in soul contract with you to awaken, heal and evolve you.

SUMMARY OF PSYCHOPATHIC NARCISSISTIC MISOGYNIST SYNDROME

This summary is based on the article, “10 Signs Your Man Is A Psychopath,” from Huffington Post HERE.  The article refers to the book, “Psychopath Free,” by MacKenzie states that the basic core of this type of abuse can be predicted like clockwork: Idealize, Devalue, Discard.

1.   PULLS YOU IN, HOOKS YOU with love bombing, bonding on similarities, a pity me story.  This is the phase where your psychopathic narcissistic misogynist hooks you on oxytocin, a highly addictive hormone, released during the pleasure of emotional bonding.

If you are deprived of oxytocin as child, psychologists are beginning to believe you will have a predisposition to addictions for the rest of your life.  More on this below.

a.  LOVE BOMBING.  Makes you fall in love with them so they have control.  You might be swept off your feet with flattery, emotional connection, great sex, gifts, paid luxury vacations, jewelry, flattery, etc.   You might not have ever been treated this royally by anyone.

A narcissist gets energy (oxytocin) from your love of them.  My theory is they were starved oxytocin when a child and forever will be addicted to stealing it from others in any way they can.

A narcissist is addicted to love.

b.  BONDING.  Your lover will attempt to solidify the bond by finding ways to say you and he are so very much alike.  Your lover might use your hobby, birth place, ethnicity, sexual compatibility and religion, etc. to do this.

c.  PITY ME.  This person will attempt to further solidify the bond by revealing a real or false past where he was so hurt or damaged by someone or something so as to almost never recuperate.

2.   PUSHES YOU AWAY.   Starts to find things wrong with you.   Makes you angry, then says it is your fault.

3.  TRIANGULATION.  Starts to do a love triangulation bringing other women into the relationship because you are not enough.  Your lover might set up the conflict, then use it to discard you.