SELF ESTEEM:  I count!

Today I suddenly had an epiphany.  I was allowing certain people to step all over me.  I was not standing up for myself.

I was swallowing my needs, my rights at the risk of losing a love interest, which by his current behavior probably never really loved me.

All of a sudden this morning after a great night’s rest and sleep I awoke with this feeling.

I count!  I count more than anyone else to me.  I need to stand up for myself in all situations.  If someone does not love me it is his loss, not mine.

I COUNT!

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Have you ever been in a situation, usually having to do with being loved and loving, where suddenly you realize you have become unwittingly someone’s doormat?  It sounds so absurd I am laughing at the thought.

But it is true, and it is so prevalent I thought I would write about it today in case you were having a similar issue in your own life.

You meet someone, or it can be a child of yours too.  He or she is charismatic, or you just can’t stand not loving this person.  For whatever reason they have you wrapped around their little finger.

Suddenly one day you realize.  Your self esteem is gone.  You have done things for this person you never did before or for anyone else.

You have done things that might have even been against your own morals or sense of self.

How can we know when this is happening before it is too late?  Perhaps by simply checking in with self on a regular basis.

Yes, I think paying attention to your feelings is the red flag.  If you are in a relationship where hurting is a regular thing, a red flag is waving at you.

THAT my dear friends is the key.

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So if you are feeling hurt something outside of you is not in alignment with your inner self, your soul.  Your soul loves you.  Your soul is love.

Any situation out of alignment with love, will show up as pain.

So be vigilant in your feelings.  YOU my dear friends deserve the best.  Now go out and claim it!

There is so much more to say on this subject.  But the core of it is, when you love yourself you will not feel pain, you will feel happy.

Self love is honoring the core of your being.  At the deep level of soul, there is only love.  When a situation on the earth plain is disrespectful to you, it is an opportunity to realign with your higher power, your soul.

Your soul will never lead you astray.  It is there to guide you from healing to happiness.

Love,

Spirit Medium Laura

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