SOUL MATE:  Sexing for Soul Mates?  Channeled answers on how sexual attraction can help you grow to attract your soul mate.

In my travels as a vibrant single woman, I have begun to wonder about the significance of sexual attraction in a relationship.  Does sexual attraction have meaning?  Is it indicative of something more than just gonads going off?

Is this person for whom I am so crazy in love with, for who I feel such other worldly bliss, a soul mate?   Does this mean something more than just physical attraction?  Is there something spiritual going on too?

What does this mean?

After doing some research on this and talking to some friends I came up with once again the limitations of the human mind, human thinking.  No answers sufficed.  So I decided today to channel my spiritual guides for an answer.

Here is the answer the Spiritual Guides (SGs), led by St. Ignatius Loyola (Ola), provided me during a channeling session today.

MY QUESTION:  Dear SGs, why do I feel such bliss and such comfort when I am in the presence of xxxx?  This relationship is so difficult in so many ways.  Why do I feel so connected to someone who is so difficult with which to connect?  Is there a meaning to this relationship beyond the physical?

SGs ANSWER:    We have come to be with you today to speak about the metaphysical nature of love.  Love is of concern to everyone on earth, not just you.  However, you seem to look at it beyond the physical more than others, because you experience it beyond the physical more than others.

This is not to say that love is just physical.  No.  We mean that most are not aware of much beyond the physical and then become very, very confused by their sexual experiences.

Most do not understand the power of the soul and its implications within a physical context.  There is no love without the soul.   Only with the soul is there love.  So this means that within the context of physical love there is the soul acting on its agenda for you.

You each have an agenda for your soul, not your body.  Your body follows the soul.  So if you are not aware of what your soul wants for you, you will become very confused by your body.

Your body is only part of the equation.

So we say to you to look at the soul more closely and then you will receive better understanding of the physical.  The physical is dependent on the soul’s agenda. 

When you attract to someone your soul has called to them.  Their soul has called to you.  Your frequencies have matched.   It is all about energy.

Each of you has a specific frequency you emit.  This frequency is your signal.  When you become more vibrant in emitting your signal you are then able to attract your soul mate.  If you have not yet polished your frequency, you will find it difficult to be with your soul mate, the soul you planned to be with in this life time.

When you have cleared your vibration and shine your frequency illuminated, cleared, clarified and contained therein, you will be able to be in your soul mate relationship without conflict.

It will hold all the excitement of a soul mate connection without all the disturbances.

Do not look negatively at the disturbances in a relationship.  They are there to help you clarify your frequency, become the best you possible.  It is in the best you status that you then attract harmonious, fulfilling relations of the sexual kind.

Ask yourself that which you need.  Ask it on a daily basis.  This need comes from your soul. The more you fulfill your desires yourself, the more polished your vibration becomes.

Anything that you are unhappy about in your life, fulfill it now.  The more you do this, the more you will attract your right mate. 

Start today to ask yourself, “What do I want or need to bring me happiness?”  Then fulfill it.

When you do this on a regular basis you will find your life will take on the stuff of miracles and you will become more peaceful, for you will then know you are the keeper of your heart and happiness, no one else.

When you get this, you become more comfortable within the context of a relationship.  Then you can take the risk of being in an intimate connection and still be happy.

Most people cannot be within an intimate relationship and be fulfilled because they have not fulfilled themselves first. 

The key to a happy relation is self-fulfillment.

MY QUESTION:  But SGs, why does someone feel so sexually attracted to one person, but not another? Is there a reason for this attraction?

SGs ANSWER:  We are here.  Yes, the person you call the soul mate is there to help you develop as a soul.  Soul mates are there to help each person develop themselves, to shine their light brighter, to fulfill themselves.  

If you feel “in-love” it is not because that relationship is a hot physical attraction.  It is because it is a loving soul attachment there for your growth. 

Do not underestimate the power of physical attraction.  It is there for your growth as a soul.

Namaste,

Spiritual Guides

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