The other day I remember focusing intensely on something I really wanted.  I had been running seminars at a location, which was becoming very toxic for me.

I ached to be relieved of it.  However, I could not just abandon it, as a full year’s commitment was involved.  I felt trapped.

Every time I thought of how much I wanted to be relieved of that seminar series, I would ask my heavenly helpers to work on this for me, as I felt and knew I was powerless over it.

I would say to them, “Please take care of this for me,” as if I had given them an assignment.

Within a week of my handing my intense desire up to heavenly helpers, the opportunity to cancel the seminar series was presented to me in a perfect way.  Within a few minutes it was cancelled with something much better in its place!

I realized at this moment a little miracle had happened.  But what exactly created this miracle?   I wanted to know for future reference.  Well, there was:

1. An intense desire (wanting) for this condition.
2. A formal asking for resolution from my heavenly helpers.
3. My allowing the condition to come to me rather than my forcing it.

A couple of years ago a dear friend of mine and excellent Public Speaking Coach, AmondaRose Igoe, (http://www.HighPerformanceSpeaking.com), was running seminars based on the book, “Hiring The Heavens.”  She was using this practice in all her manifesting work.

I had tried it but it did not work for me, yet I did feel it was a valid system.  The above incident taught me what was missing from my earlier practice.

When I asked for help from heaven, I was not asking for something I really, really wanted.  I was conflicted, out of synch, with myself and my feelings.

The Spiritual Law of Desire, is extremely powerful!  Any manifesting work you do must be based on this first.  Real, unobstructed desire is like a volcano.

Many times you are trying to get something in your life, and it never comes.  This is because you are in conflict with that goal at a subconscious level.

For example, you think you want to find a loving relationship.  Yet you engage in actions which sabotage that goal.

You never take steps which will help you to bring in that mate.  Why do you sabotage that which you think you want?  Because you really do not WANT this goal due to some fear you have about attaining it.

Perhaps you are afraid of having a relationship because you do not want to get hurt again, or having one would prevent you from owning your time.  Whatever the reason there is one.

So one secret to getting what you want is to really want it.  If you are not getting something you think you want clear up the contradictions surrounding it.  Maybe you need to go to therapy to explore why you are in conflict about this goal.   Working with a good soul psychic can help as well.

The secret is to really want, without barriers.  The technique to get in touch with your wants is to:

1. Go into a meditation for at least 15 minutes.
2. Take out a journal.
3. Write down what you really want.
4. Start from a true feeling of desire.  If you feel cool about your want, you are in conflict at a subconscious level.  You have to feel totally lit up when you think about getting what you want.  If you feel cool, you need to unravel the fear you have about getting what you want.  Another way to say this is to move from fear to love.
5. Every time we are in conflict with our heart’s desire we are in fear of attaining it.

The more you write down what you think you want, the more you will get in touch with your fear surrounding it.  This will allow you to restate what you want in a way that is attainable for you without fear.

You are not removing the fear.  You are restating the desire.  You are articulating what you really want versus what you think you should want.

An example of this is the following.  You want a loving relationship, yet it never happens.  The reason is you are in fear of attaining it.  Perhaps you fear it will take you away from the responsibilities of raising your children?  Maybe you are fearful it will be demanding of your time or force you to do things you do not want to do?

Once you are aware of what the fear is behind your supposed want, you can restate the want in a way that is copacetic for you.

Here is the goal restated.  “I want a loving relationship that works well within the confines of the time I have and the lifestyle I care to lead.”  Be as specific as you can be about what you want without stating how it will be attained.

I call this the “I want,” technique.  It works if you use it correctly.

NOTE: Laura Mendelsohn, Psychic Medium, provides soul level discernments for communication with your loved ones in spirit, wise guidance from your heavenly helpers, healing, abundance, life purpose, holistic business creation, medical intuition, and soul mate attraction.  She can be reached at (954) 465-7338 or PsychicMediumLaura@Gmail.com to set your private appointment or join one of her classes.