ANGER and CONFIDENCE. How to Cure Anger With Confidence.
When you are angry you lack self confidence or self esteem. This is a law of nature.
Those on earth that use anger as a salve or a balm for the wounds they have inside are really asking for help. They are asking that someone “see” them.
However, when someone needs to be seen, they are NOT seeing themselves.
You can use anger as way to see inside yourself, to see who you really are.
The situations that upset you are the areas where you need to be heard more, understood more or cared for more.
Anger, in another way then, is feeling a lack of love and understanding of yourself. This is where the self esteem issue lies.
No one, including yourself, was adept enough in the past to “see” you, hear you or react to your needs or point of view in an intelligent and perceptive way.
If you find anger is your main resource for dealing with conflict you need to begin exercises where you see yourself and support your point of view.
There is no on else who can do this for you. It is up to you.
When you are alone and feel afraid it is because you abandoned yourself somehow.
Anger is your way of telling yourself that you have abandoned YOU!
So when you are angry covet this piece of information. Use it to your advantage.
Immediately or as soon as you can after an episode of feeling anger, ask yourself why you felt this way.
You need to begin backing yourself.
No one can threaten you if you back yourself.
You become like a rock, accepting and endorsing YOU!
Another reason you might deal with conflict using anger is you might not know yourself.
If you do not know yourself, you do not know what you feel or believe about things. This is when you will become angry most often.
Many situations in life will upset or threaten you.
Why? Because the person who does not know him or herself cannot support him or herself.
If you do not support yourself, you cannot be centered, in balance and calm.
The person that can simply hear another opinion without feeling threatened has a personal foundation that is rock solid.
So the next time you get angry, hear it out. Listen to what triggered you.
This trigger is what you need to support in yourself.
You will no longer need other individuals to support you if you support yourself!
There are times when you cannot support yourself, the issues are much larger than you. Perhaps you believe someone is harming the greater good and you cannot do anything about this.
Perhaps you see damage being done to others, without any recourse or accountability.
Yet the cause within yourself to feel anger is the same. It means that you feel vulnerable in some way to this individual’s presence, attitude and power over you and the greater good.
Being angry is feeling threatened.
When you feel anger it is a time to recognize your fear and begin to treat it with love.
Love yourself and love the greater good.
We as your Divine Beings want you to know that you are not supported by God when you feel angry.
Quite the contrary. You are Edging God Out (EGO). Your EGO is in control.
The EGO is fear and will control you so long as you let it. Remember there is nothing to fear.
No one can harm the greater good or your personal good.
You are infinite and with this knowledge and understanding, you cannot be hurt.
This last lesson is the most difficult for humans to get or to utilize.
A simple way to deal with anger of this sort, the sort that has to do with fear of personal and universal annihilation, is to remind yourself of your infinite nature.
You are infinite. You are part of the whole, divine presence.
With an understanding of your divine nature as part of something larger, fear itself can be washed away, anger can be transformed to understanding, tolerance and love.
Ask not what life can do for you, but rather what you can do for life. With the attitude of giving, your anger will be transformed.
Then with giving you get and with getting you thrive.
Anger is the absence of tolerance for all, including those opinions or actions that seem likely to hurt you.
When you understand you are love itself, you have tolerance for all and feel threatened by none.
Amen.
Namaste
Spirit Medium Laura channeling The Ones
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