Bam! Lenora slammed down the cover of her cell phone. Josh just sent her one more rude text message telling her she would never change and they were finished. She was so frustrated and angry.
It was three years since she first met him. Things were always passionate, yet combative between them. When Josh met a new woman named Angelina, he decided he wanted out of his relationship with Lenora. The fighting had worn him down. He was weary and just wanted peace.
Lenora had been devastated. In her pain she wallowed. She could not seem to let go. What made matters worse is that Josh kept contacting her. He would call to see how she was or just to say, “Hello.”
It was obvious Josh could not let go either. They both had unfinished emotional business together.
This went on for an entire year. Josh dated Angelina on the surface but continued to contact Lenora every few weeks to see her as a “friend” or just say, “Hello.”
Finally after Josh sent a text message to Lenora wishing her a happy birthday the above argument ensued. Lenora expected more than a mere text message from him for her birthday. He did not see any reason to do more.
Relationships which remain volatile, toxic and unhealthy can be healed using spiritual tools. “Soul talk” is one such tool.
Start with a quiet meditation for at least eight minutes. A great way to meditate is to stare at a sunset at the ocean. If you don’t have access to a real one, youtube.com has many videos from which to choose.
Then visualize the person with which you need healing in front of you. See them in their full form.
Visualize a connection between the two of you. This connection should look something like a large, one foot wide, six foot long, pulsing umbilical cord which grows out of your stomach areas.
Next imagine a heavenly being like an angel arriving next to the cord. This being touches the cord, immediately dissolving it into a white light down to the roots in your respective stomachs.
Now you are ready to do soul talk. Soul talk is speaking directly from the heart to the one you love. It is not about who is right or wrong. It is not about your ego versus their ego. It is about love.
Begin to express how you feel to this person as if nothing else mattered in the world but your complete and utter communication of your true feelings of love.
Now ask your love object, the person you imagine in front of you, to speak back. Wait and listen. Perhaps you will hear words of love or perhaps a request of you.
Continue this imaginary dialogue until you feel finished and satisfied. You may do it as often as you feel the need to do it.
This is a way to begin healing relationships which are toxic. You are tearing down the old to allow something new to begin between you based on unconditional love.
Soon you will find there will be a shift in the nature of your relationship. The old arguments will be replaced with healing, more loving communication. A new birth will occur.
This does not guarantee you will get back with your ex-lover. No. It means the relationship will be healed for all parties in the way it needs to be healed for mutual growth.
When relationships are in turmoil there is a soul growth attached to them. You just need to allow this growth to happen. It can only happen when unconditional love is expressed. Soul talk is one method to do this.
NOTE: Laura Bartolini Mendelsohn is available for spiritual intuitive coaching to apply Soul Talk in your life. Please contact her at (954) 465-7338 or email her at PsychicMediumLaura@Gmail.com to set your appointment.
