How to Find Love? Learning how to create the vibration of love is integral to finding it. This starts with letting go of perfectionism and continues with learning how to be alone.
This article contains some ideas, some video and some channeling from an Ascended Master.
The short answer to the question “How to Find Love,” is to love yourself. We attract what we are.
PERFECTIONISM
One way to NOT love yourself is to try to be perfect.
So right now I am going to ask you to take up a hobby, sport, or creative pursuit which you believe you have no skill set or talent, but think might be fun, nevertheless.
I am asking you to try to do it, even though you are not very good at it.
As you travel through this messy experience of imperfection I ask you to find the courage and the self love to laugh at yourself, to forgive yourself and to encourage yourself to continue.
You see, it is only by getting out of the rigid place of perfection that you can then loosen up to love yourself.
Then love starts to find you as much as you have found it.
The following video of a PSYCHIC SAMPLER illustrates these points.
VIDEO: How to Find Love Reading
The video is followed by channeling from Ascended Master Dom Ignacio on the subject of “How Do I find Love.”
Channeling from Ascended Master Dom Ignacio on the subject of “How to find Love.”
Dear Spirit Guides how does a human attract love into their lives?
Love is an element of self first and to others later. When you love yourself on a daily basis you are beginning to show signs and aspects of the love vibration.
Love is something humans talk a lot about, however, humans do not really understand what love is.
Love is not being perfect from an outward sense.
Love is being perfect from an inward sense. It is all about knowing who and what you are on a moment by moment basis, seeing this, exploring this and expressing this, not repressing it.
So when you feel or know something intuitively and you ignore it, saying nothing to yourself, you have snuffed out the very basis of who and what you are, which is feeling.
You are the aspect of self that is feeling this or feeling that.
Do not stop yourself from feeling, but rather explore your feelings on a daily basis. You will find with regular feeling practice you will know and accept yourself more and more.
You will then begin to love yourself.
Feelings are not good or bad in and of themselves. They are simply feelings.
It is through exploring your feelings that you begin to clear out the cobwebs of self denigration and begin to open the light of true love, which is self expression.
Who or what is the self? It is the soul, not the mind, so when we say self expression, we mean soul expression.
The more you can comb through the ego to the soul, the more love you will feel for yourself and for others.
The soul is the secret to find love because the soul is love itself.
Ask yourself today one question.
“What can I do to love myself more?”
The answer will surprise you and perhaps even frighten you for the soul does not have fear, it only has love.
The mind has fear and will try to protect you from harm, the harm you have imagined because you have allowed the mind to function more than the soul.
Ask yourself today, “what can I do to alleviate my fears? My fears of not being lovable, not having enough love, not being love itself, my fear of being alone, being misunderstood, forgotten, overlooked by others, left at home when others are out?”
“What can i do to overcome this fear of being alone?”
Once you have gotten over the fear of being alone you will find that love will come to you, almost by accident, not planned, given full voice and allowed to enter into your life.
Being alone is the best and most right way to find love.
When you can be alone and found nothing harmed or hurt you, you did not implode or explode, you will find that love begins to blossom within you.
You did not annihilate. You were just fine alone.
So ask yourself today how to be alone with you, why to be alone with you and then be alone with you.
Then love will find you.
Namaste,
The Ascended Master Dom Ignacio through Spirit Medium Laura
I find this very interesting. I was not expecting spirit to talk about being alone. However, being alone does make a lot of sense.
When you can be alone, you suddenly release any fear surrounding finding love or not finding it.
You become self sufficient. In this state of utter self reliance you are fully self supportive, loving yourself completely.
SUMMARY
In summary learn to love yourself by taking on the most difficult task. That is to learn to be alone first.
From this new love can follow.
Spirit Medium Laura
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