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How to Set Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship. Learning to set healthy boundaries is a relationship miracle. Feeling worthy is the first step.
Client Sessions Revealed How to Set Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship
Spirit did it again! Today I had two client sessions. Each one told the sitter they had to learn how to set healthy boundaries.
Client 1. The first sitter received advice from her mother in spirit. Her mother told her that in order to alleviate problems she was facing in life she had to learn how to speak her truth.
She had to stop feeling sorry for herself. Instead she had to speak up. This would help with a love and a sibling relationship.
Client 2. This client brought up a personal problem he has which spirit resolved by telling him he needed to learn how to set boundaries.
He was told that his second and third chakras needed healing, which we did.
Finally I found some wonderful healing meditations on setting boundaries to reinforce the healing.
The Miracle of Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship
My Story. Then I realized that setting boundaries is healing miracle. I recently had developed a very bad cold.
After I saw how spirit was highlighting “setting boundaries” as a theme for today, I realized that I needed to learn from this as well.
I realized this cold was my wake up call to set better boundaries in my personal life. I had said “yes,” when I meant “no.” I took a risk and afterwards got sick.
When we do not set boundaries, we can get sick, frustrated, suffer emotionally and function poorly. Our relationships with self and others can fail.
First Step How to Set Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship Is Healing Through Chakras
When I am in session I do a healing on specific chakras using energy and light. This is a clairvoyant healing session where the healing block is revealed psychically at the correct chakra.
I explain what I see. The client validates. We send in healing light as spirit directs. Healing is completed.
Below find a good generic Chakra Healing for your use. It can get you started on your healing journey.
Setting Boundaries Meditation
Here is a good meditation I found on youtube for setting boundaries. Enjoy it. There are so many I am certain you will find others you like too!
Another Story About How to Set Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship
Later in the week after writing this article I had a client make demands upon me that were unfair and even a bit abusive.
I did not see the connection to setting boundaries until I went back to finish this article.
There I saw the complete pattern.
Boundary Setting Pattern
- Don’t set boundary.
- Do something you do not want to do to please someone else.
- Get sick, hurt, annoyed, upset, feel used and so on.
Loving yourself first is key.
Share Your Boundary Stories in the Comments Below
Further Resource
Here is a great article from Psychology Today which explains how to set healthy boundaries. Go HERE.
Namaste,
Spirit Medium Laura