Love Addiction: Surrender to Flow

Jennie knew a lot about life.  She knew she had a higher power.  She knew how to let go to this power and to follow its lead.  However, even though Jennie knew all of this she still became addicted to a love relationship.

No matter what Jennie did, she was haunted by the rejection of her most recent boyfriend.  He paraded his new girlfriend, one he suddenly started dating within days of “dumping” her, in their social circles.  She could not avoid knowing about him and seeing his new life.

She felt rejected, humiliated and hopeful that he would return to her!  In her worst moments, when she felt very dark in the pain of loneliness and rejection she would turn to phone psychics for advice.

Most said he would return, which only further fueled her addiction to this person.  

She was so addicted she continued to call psychics until her monthly bill went into the thousands of dollars.  As her addictive behavior continued, her self esteem plummeted until she could not concentrate on her job.  She feared she would be fired. 

Even though Jennie knew better she had become addicted to a person. 

One night as Jennie tried to fall off to sleep, her head kept reviewing all the things her boyfriend had done to push her away.  All she had done was love him.  All he did was try to avoid this love by finding fault, creating arguments and finally by placing his new girlfriend between them.  

The pain started up inside of her again. 

In this moment of absolute pain, she had an insight.  “I am trying to control this.  My happiness is dependent on my ex-boyfriend behaving in a certain way.”

With this insight firmly in place, she realized there was a choice.  The choice was to surrender to her destiny, her flow. 

As she had this idea, her pain began to dissipate.  She began to feel a benevolent destiny existed for her.  All she had to do was ask for it to appear and it would. 

She asked right away that her destiny, her flow, begin to assert itself.  She surrendered to a higher power.   As soon as she did this she felt peaceful and lulled off to sleep. 

 

The next morning her life was exactly as it was the night before, with one major change.  She stopped trying to control what happened.  She stopped trying to hope things turned out a certain way for her.

She just released her destiny to a higher power, accepting that she did not need love from anyone.  She was completely loved already as she was. 

She knew so long as she practiced love, she would have love.  She felt complete unto herself.

She stopped trying to find a new boyfriend.  It is not that she did not want a partner, but her belief switched from trying to make something happen to enjoying her life now.  When the time was right, her new lover would appear.  These ideas made her feel peaceful, complete and fulfilled. 

Within a few months of applying these principles a new person did appear in her life.  He gave her back what she was giving out, which was love.  There was peace between them and a genuine caring.

She attracted love, because she became love.

If you would like to begin surrendering to flow in your own life you need to understand there is a purpose for your life which is benevolent.  You need to surrender to this purpose with the expectation that doing so will bring favorable results.  

The less you resist and the more you flow, the better your life will become.

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