Feeling Good Enough for Happiness, Love, Money

This article is part of the Worthiness Series listed here.

• WORTHINESS: The Road to Worthiness
• SELF SABOTAGE – A Worthiness Deficiency
• MEDITATION for SELF WORTH
• How to Feel Worthy
• Feeling Good Enough for Happiness, Love, Money

Do you feel good enough?  I am constantly battling this condition.

Why?  Well, I do not feel like I have low esteem.  I just feel that life in its ordinary, banal state is constantly sending me signals I am not good enough.

I blame it on everyone else!  lol!

But, no, seriously.  Here is an example of what I mean.

I love to go ballroom, Latin, hustle, West Coast Swing dancing.  Whenever I go dancing lately, I feel like I am not good enough.

The dance world is vastly hierarchical.   You get points for being younger, prettier, popular and a professional dancer.

You lose points for being an ordinary human.

Being an ordinary human means when you go out dancing you get to sit in the corner all night.  The older and more ordinary you are, the more you sit.

I am getting older now.  I am still young enough to not sit in the corner all night, but still I see others sitting there.

My heart goes out to them, knowing some day unless something big changes I will be with them there.

Last night as I went dancing a man who said to me as I danced with him that now that we are older we do not have much to look forward to as a man and a woman.

Romance was over for ‘Us.”

Then he said a few other equally, if not more socially awkward things, which I will not repeat.

I gathered my most charming self together and said to him, “How old are you?”

He promptly told me 68.

[Some of you reading this might be thinking 68 years old is nearly dead, but I assure you, in the dance world in southeast Florida, that is a spring chicken, both for the physical stamina, the lack of wrinkles and the literal chronological place in the population here.  :)]

So I said back to him as benignly as possible, “Well, I am not 68.”

Afterwards I noticed he scooped up a couple of dances with the youngest, most beautiful woman in the room.  She was there with her dance partner, obviously a professional ballroom dancer and competitor.

This woman exhibited a, “Dancing with the Stars,” caliber of looks and ability.

As I noticed this, I realized this is what this man wants.  A young, beautiful dance star.

Where do I sit in all of this?

Nowhere, actually.

I am getting older.

Now getting older is somewhat tolerable if you have a family with children and grandchildren, but if you are getting old alone it can all seem rather dim.

But, but, but!

For me it is not dim.

Yes, even though all of this is true, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.  The light is God.

When we realize that all of this is superficial stuff, fun, playful at best, we realize our worth as an individual is so much more than skin deep.

We realize that what we offer the world is more than a “look,” or “status,” or “fame.”

We offer presence.

What is presence?

Channeling from The Ones on presence.

We are here.  We are the ones. 

Presence is your caliber of individuality.  What are you?  Who are you?  What do you bring to the table of life?

What are your talents, your skills, why are you needed rather than the person next to you.

Each person has a presence.  We do not mean that the person next to you is less than you.

We mean each person has a piece of the puzzle of life, fills a purpose and without you, specifically you who are reading this message today, has a presence.

Presence is your essence, it is your gift, your ideas, your purpose.

When you over look your intangible quality of presence you overlook your value as an individual.

So presence is everything.

That young dancer had presence in the story you presented.  Her presence to the older man was to make him feel younger, more attractive and desirable.

He felt not good enough.

Your presence to this man can be the same, to make or help him feel desired but in a different way, simply as a person.

We all feel less than when in the earth vibration.

It is the way of the world to feel less than and not good enough.

When one feels this way it is to learn to honor thyself, to rise up out of it, to know presence is everything.

When you honor yourself and your gift to contribute you will find life will take on the stuff of miracles.

You will move out of the corner of the room into the center of the room, knowing that all gifts are to be given, shared and known, not hidden away.

If you see someone sitting on the sidelines, waiting for someone to pull them out of the corner of life to feel good about them self, give them your gift of presence.

We love you as the seekers of light and love.

We are here to help you blossom in life on earth going through the dimension of fear, no light and no love.

It is your path on earth to see the light, follow it fully and share it with others.

So the summary of your worth is your ability to lead others to the light as you see the light.

Amen,

Namaste,

The ones.

Channeled through Spirit Medium Laura

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