SPIRIT COMMUNICATIONS:  Soothe Don’t Lose. 

Saturday a lovely lady came to me who cried constantly in grief at the loss of her husband.  This was the third time I did mediumship for her.  

Each time the grief was extreme.  She was not getting better.

After I brought in evidence to validate her husband I allowed him to talk to his wife.  He gave her much advice to move forward with her life.   But this piece was the most important:  

“Soothe don’t lose.“

You see, unknown to me, but known to him, she was afraid if she felt better, she would lose her husband.  He would really then be gone because she would have forgotten him.

So he told her that feeling better, “soothed,” did not mean she would “lose” him.  

SHE LOVED THIS IDEA!

Her husband continued to give her ideas to create a new life such as decorate the bathroom as she was thinking of doing (confirmed), take up the new line of work she was thinking of doing to become “Silver Sneakers” certified fitness instructor (validated) and some other things.

He also told her to look in on his sons from a former marriage (confirmed) of which she had no contact.  He said that would help her heal, as well.  I hope she will.  

How many times do we hold onto the illusion we have something because letting go of it is too painful?    This advice is great for anyone trying to let go of the past to bring in a new future.    

Have a great day all.