Jane was not the most beautiful girl in the room, but she had attracted Mark, a man any woman would want.  Mark was handsome, thoughtful, generous, loving, kind and an excellent dancer. 

Jane had been eyeing Mark for quite some time in the dance venues they both frequented.  They were becoming friends over time.  However, since Mark was involved with another woman he kept his distance.  

Mark was having trouble in the relationship with his girl friend.  They fought often, mostly over the thing he liked to do and she did not like to do, which was dance.  She was jealous of the nights he went out without her to dance. 

 

Finally after one last argument, they broke up.  Mark continued to go dancing after the break up.  He loved to dance.  It was almost his therapy. 

One evening about four weeks after his break up Mark saw Jane in the dance venue they both frequented.  They began to date. 

When his ex girlfriend learned of this, she tried everything to get him back.  She tried making him feel guilty.  She tried seduction.  She even tried using a love spell! 

All of these activities were devoid of love for herself or Mark.  They came from a place of emptiness, neediness and control. 

On the other hand, Jane never tried to win Mark over.  She simply engaged in the action of loving what she did, and appreciating him as a dancer and friend.  When he became free of his last relationship there he was, ready to make a deeper connection with her.

If you have tried to attract love into your life and have had failure, consider relieving yourself of the task of finding it.  Instead focus on having love right now in everything you are and everything you do. 

When you become the thing you want, you are in flow.  Flow is not concerned with the end result.  Flow is concerned with the trip, the journey.  Flow is the now.

The way to begin producing love in your life using flow is to be love.  When you are love you will attract love. 

How do you become love?  Visualize it in your life right now.  Fill your life with love immediately.  Do the things you love.  Fill your life with wonderful activities that make your heart sing and bring you a sense of peace, fulfillment, creativity and joy.   If you love flowers, bring home flowers.  If you love to dance, take up dancing.  If you love children, begin to work with children more.

Soon you will find you will be attracting love in many ways.  It will only be a matter of time before love flows to you.  All you had to do was be it today. 

When you let go of fighting to receive love, love will flow to you. 

NOTE:  To learn about getting more flow into your life and achieving your heart’s desires read this page, then go to the first chapter of “Quantum Flow:  8 Steps to Real Magic” from there.   The e-book can be purchased following these links as well.